Renowned comedian and filmmaker Ayodeji Makun, popularly known as AY Comedian, has addressed the backlash following his recent comments on the lack of support from his male colleagues for his latest film, The Waiter.
In a detailed response, AY clarified that her statement was not intended to undermine the achievements of women in the entertainment industry, who she noted have always enjoyed her unwavering support. Instead, she focused on the need for greater camaraderie and support among male colleagues.
Expressing his frustration, AY highlighted cases where actors promoted other films while neglecting their project, even when contractual agreements were in place.
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“Do you know how frustrating it is to pay actors who end up promoting other movies and abandoning the one they are in… EVEN with signed contracts?” he wrote.
AY stressed that asking colleagues for help should be considered a strength and not a weakness. He emphasized the societal pressures on men to appear stoic, arguing that such a mindset prevents them from expressing vulnerabilities, which ultimately affects their mental and emotional well-being.
He called for a change in this narrative, stating: “Being silent as men when we face challenges and struggles is the reason many of us die before our time.
If I tell you that I have a good film that demands the support of my fellow human beings, join me in fostering an environment where I can feel empowered to share my vulnerabilities, fears and challenges.”
AY also cited his renewed friendship with comedian Basketmouth as an example of the kind of mutual support men should cultivate.
He urged men to support each other with the same energy with which they support women, promoting what he called a “brotherhood that uplifts everyone.”
She wrote: “The women in the business are my friends and nothing has changed. Asking my colleagues for help directly or indirectly should be seen as a strength, not a weakness.
“Together we can redefine what it means to be strong and create a community where every man feels valued and heard.”
NIGERIAN TRIBUNE